Families, carers & supporters
Take our cue from the person in front of us.
A good number of our conversations start with a parent, a sibling or a partner rather than the participant. That is completely normal and they are welcome.
Where the person receiving support can lead the conversation, they lead it. Where they would prefer someone else did most of the talking, that is fine too. We take our cue from the person in front of us rather than from assumptions about what they can manage.
If you have been carrying the caring role on your own for a long time, it is worth saying so out loud. Support that takes pressure off a family carer is a legitimate outcome, not a soft one.